Just The One!

For those of us limited to just one Setter...there must be more people than just me :-(
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  • Sheree Parrish

    Hi all :-)

    I'm absolutely thrilled that you have all joined, and please don't worry if you have more than one, I certainly shan't leave when I finally get another...(not sure if Hubby is monitoring my messages so have to be a bit coy!! lol)

    I have to admit that I do humanise Henry to a certain extent, I don't like to leave him incase he gets lonely, whereas when I had all the others I didn't work from home so they were left for a certain amount of time each day, but I didn't worry too much as they had each other for company.  I have Henry with me all day during work, and then he will come into the lounge with us of an evening....he does sleep in the office/family room or the hall/utility overnight...hubby has drawn a thick line when I mentioned him coming into the bedroom overnight too haha.

    Thanks again..looking forward to chatting :-)

  • Agnieszka Rola

    well...

    my "only one" is almost always with me - free time, holidays, many parties, sometimes at work, sleeps in our bed (if he wants), etc. and I don't think it will change even when there will be two :)

  • Eunice Marott

    Hi Sheree

    thanks for starting this group. I used to think I was mad worrying about leaving Molly and all the special attention we give her. It seems situations are the same no matter where you come from. I love reading stories from others who live in Europe and other parts of the world taking their dogs into the woods or snow. We have been to Europe and last year when in Germany I came across the most beautiful IS having a run with his owner. Wish there were more dog friendly places in Australia as Molly travels really well in the car. This group has helped me at the moment so thankyou  

  • Finding_Beau

    I might put my fire suit on too. Please correct me if I am wrong, I believe when Mike talks about humanising a dog, he is referring to anthropomorphisation. I do not believe there is anything wrong with treating a dog the same as a human in the sense of emotions and feelings because I believe all animals, including wild animals, possess sophisticated emotions and intelligence. Unfortunately the only species losing positive emotions e.g. love and empathy, is the human. I also do not agree with the pack theory. I am able to intuitively communicate with my dogs and horses and even wild birds, as we all are. Our animals can teach us all so much if we are humble enough to listen.

    PS Thank you for the invite, Sheree. I forgot to mention this in my last comment.

  • Sheree Parrish

    Beautiful photo..I love to see the wildlife so close up, I wonder if the same one will return this year?
  • Susan Stone

    Thanks for the invite, Sheree, but actually I own two (or three, depending on count) Irish. But may I say that there are times when it would actually be easier owing just the one! As son as you want to work or just generally train a dog it is far simpler if you are working with just one, and don't feel you are neglecting the other...

    So all of you with just one, don't regret it, enjoy the one to the full! 

  • Chantal McIlveen-Wright

    Since May last year I just have one Irish Setter now, and I must admit I am quite happy with just one. Having two is an idea of my husband but as far as I am concerned I prefer to have just one and having a strong relationship with her/him.

    Now let's be honest, if anyone is bringing me a homeless IS or a pup, I wouldn't be able to resist.....

  • Peter Hennig

    Hi Sheree thanks for the invite I have only one setter but we also have 2 afghans and a havanese and since this site is for lovers of irish setters technically I am able to join I guess  let me know if I am incorrect and I shall weep bitter tears at my non inclusion

    cheers Peter

  • Sue and Cash

    Thanks for inviting me Sheree.  I have always had "one" dog at a time.  With work and family I find it just is the best fit for us.  But I never think of my dog as an only dog in the sense he gets to play with dozens and dozens of other dogs for about two hours a day in our park.  He has a pack he hangs out with everyday and I am grateful for those friends and their pets because Cash learns more from them than me about dog behavior.  I know I couldn't own this wonderful breed of dog if I didn't have a place for him to run free safely everyday.  It keeps him sane and it turn our homelife is perfect.

  • Laura Kolbach

    not meeting the criteria anylonger (having 3 now) but also i started once with one. the one and only :)
  • Sheree Parrish

    Thanks for joining the group.

    The more I think of it the more I feel that just the one suits my lifestyle now, being married with a stepson does take up a lot more of my time than I had imagined, and the rest of the time is devoted to Henry. Once we sell up and move it will be different, I'm sure :-)

  • Kate

    Thanks for the invite!

    Only have the Rubster 'irish' however she is our 2nd after having our first family dog for 14 years.

    Kate and Ruby

  • Sheree Parrish

    Welcome :-)...there are many ways round the "only the one" banner, only one boy, or only one girl, or only one type ;-)
  • Sue Paterson

    Hi Sheree and thank you for the invitation.

    After your last comment, I can join:-)) I have only one breed - Irish setters, and only one of the 5 currently is a bitch so thats ok..and, by the way, each one is THE one!

  • Eunice Marott

    i was thinking this afternoon it would be nice to have 30 members as a round number in the group and there you are it is now 30
  • Sheree Parrish

    Thanks so much for joining Sue and Eunice :-)
  • Sheree Parrish

    Thanks Barbara, Harry & Alfie..so pleased you have joined :-)
  • martin falsey

    hi at this time i have 1 red setter i had my lovely pointer jade for 12 years so hoping in the next couple of months that we will have some puppies so as i have one dog i hope to have for a long time good luck with your one
  • Lynn Spencer

    Thanks Sheree for the invite.  At the moment, I just have one Setter, my Irish girl Tess, but do plan on adding another English Setter in the future.  Just need a little time.  I guess at the moment though, I qualify, so thankyou.  Very happy to be a member of your group. 
  • Sheree Parrish

    Thanks Martin and Lynn, great to have you both onboard :-)
  • Delia Bryce

    Hi, Currently Murphy is training us into Irish ways but we do hope to have a brother for him later in the year ..... Lots of fun though!

  • Jean K

    Hi,

     

    I currently have one R/W setter named Megan. From the age of 18yrs I have always owned a setter either a Red or a Red & White. Hope I can join the group.

  • Sheree Parrish

    Welcome aboard :-)
  • Sherry Miller

    I am owned by one Irish ...Molly who is about 2 1/2 years old.  We have had Irish Setters since 1973...infact my first one was a wedding gift to me after I fell in love with one we saw running across a field and knowing nothing about the breed we went out that weekend and found ourselves a puppy.  I think you all can guess the rest as I am still as infatuated with them today as I was when I saw my first one running across that field.

  • Sheree Parrish

    Hi Sherry, welcome to the forum, from the other Sheree :-) x
  • Eunice Marott

    now we have two Molly's
  • Sherry Miller

    Thanks Sheree....least we spell it differently!  and Eunice I will just call my Molly ...Miss Molly ( what the neighbors call her) on here so it will be a wee bit less confusing....unless you want to call your Molly...Baby Molly?
  • lyn hathaway

    i have owned irish for some 34 years,in that time we have had 3 beautiful girls.my present one layla is blind but handling it extremely well. i have only one regret while been the proud owner of them all and that is not having had two together.

    as well as layla we have adopted my sons boxer lucy .they are not really really close but lucy watches out for layla and if she goes too far away from us lucy will go and bring her back

  • Lorraine Martin

    Well I've got one irish for each hand - does that count ?
  • Sheree Parrish

    Welcome to the group Lyn and Lorraine.  Lorraine - that is a perfect reason for being able to join :-)
  • Jeremy Bates

    Ive not got my dog yet but it will be the only one.
  • Sheree Parrish

    Welcome Jeremy and to all others who have joined :-)
  • Sheree Parrish

    Yes, of course Tracie...welcome to the group :-)
  • Dudley Duke of Lancester

    I love being the only dog in a 2-person household as I'm an 'attention hound.' Used to live with 2 other I.S and was unhappy. I'm an oldie so the young'ums tend to get all the attention. It's also tough to fall from Alpha to dog to "that ole boy resting in the corner." My master would like to have a pack of Irish Setters and live in the countryside but I've forbidden her to bring in more dogs while I'm still hanging on at 14 yrs!
  • Sherry Miller

    Dudley sounds like you have found the perfect way to rule the roost!  but what else could a Duke do?  I know our Molly here loves being an only...a backyard dog who never came inside she might like but not sharing all the soft spots and soft people in the house is her ideal...she knows who to ask for what she wants so is just a wee bit spoiled ( make that rotten ) but just a joy to have in our home so our home quickly became centered around our Miss Molly! and she runs it beautifully.
  • Dudley Duke of Lancester

    Dudley prefers being in the living room with people to outside alone. He's rules 'the manor house,' tho' my home is a small English Tutor bungalow. When he's not sitting in a chair, he sprawls in front of the fireplace.....a nice decorative touch!
  • Eunice Marott

    sounds like our baby Molly. I worry sometimes she does not enough excerisce. She sits on the lounge or chair or like yours sprawls out on the floor. We are not cool enough here for a fire when we do she will be there in front of it.
  • roberta hanlon

    I've had dogs as pets all my life but always just one at a time. Since my marriage (30 years) we've had a dog and usually 1 or 2 cats (strays that we don't like to evict) I'm not sure how a second dog would affect our relationship with Phoebe. She gets on really well with other dogs and loves when my daughters bearded collie comes to stay. Does it become difficult to train the new pup? Do you need to separate at times to allow you to concentrate on one at a time?
  • James Doran

    Hi Sheree,

                   Just the one!...Romeo,so i couldn't resist!

    Sincere regards,

                            James.

  • Ellen Turberfield

    Hi, even though it would be lovely to have more then one setter i'm more than happy with my lovely boy Finlay (",)

  • David Darragh

    I have just one Irish Setter and my dog is very happy being the one and only.

     

  • Chantal McIlveen-Wright

    I have one Irish Setter and then I have two, back to one and then two ... on and off this group because I am for one dog at the time but my husband needs to have two ... would love to stay in this group but then it would mean something horrible happening to my second dog, would you agree to accept a honorary one?

  • charlotte martinez

    Hi. I have just one Irish 5 years old Felix and we are always together. I dont work due to illness and he takes care of me on my worst days. I live in the countryside and go for long walks with him where he can run free at least three times a day. He is my best friend and I love him to bits. Sometimes I dream of getting a female to breed because I think an Irish Setter is the most wondeful dog and I want to share that with everybody but so far just a dream and I am very happy with just Felix and I.

  • Lorraine Martin

    Sadly I am down to one setter now.  The first 6wks or so were awful for poor Gracie but she is now back to her old self and apart from looking sad when I go to work for a few hrs she seems very happy. She gets lots of individual attention and there are no boundaries in the house, all doors are left open so that she doesn't feel excluded. I very rarely walk alone so she gets to rough and tumble and do all the pack stuff while she on her walks. I cannot even think about another dog at this moment in time but who knows what will happen in the future.  

  • Lorraine Martin

    Thanks Debbie, you came to Crufts a couple of years ago to support Inca didn't you.  We have all been so sad she was a very special dog who touched the hearts of many people.  Gracie has taken over the PAT vest and in true setter style is bringing a bit of joy to people's lives. We are so lucky to have them xx

  • Sheree Parrish

    Thank you to all those who have joined.  I have a confession to make, I now have 2 English Setters, little Elkie joined us 2 weeks ago and has turned our lives upside down :-)

  • Anna Kazimierowicz

    Hi everyone,

    after many years with three or two setters I'm now only with my little Kasia. And that will by for sure for some years so I can join this group eligibly:-)

  • Eunice Marott

    Merry Xmas all we are in Europe this Xmas
  • Baileys' Page!

    My boy Bailey is 'just the one'. I am pleased to join your group!. Tina

  • Eunice Marott

    Welcome